• videocam Live Webinar with Live Q&A
  • calendar_month May 28, 2026 @ 1:00 PM ET/10:00 AM PT
  • signal_cellular_alt Intermediate
  • card_travel Family Law
  • schedule 90 minutes

Family Court Proceedings: Presenting and Defending Claims of Gaslighting, Coercive Control, Legal Abuse

About the Course

Introduction

This CLE webinar will assist family law attorneys with identifying, presenting, and challenging claims involving gaslighting, coercive control, and litigation abuse in custody and family court proceedings. Ms. Reiter will examine how coercive control surfaces as skewed narratives, personal isolation, financial pressure, abusive repeated filings, false reports, credibility attacks, and the use of the legal process as a method of control.

Description

Claims of gaslighting or coercive control must be supported through persuasive evidence of specific conduct within legally relevant categories. Labels alone are insufficient. Counsel should recognize how courts evaluate conduct to determine intentionality, pattern, and how discrete incidents may compose a campaign of abuse when viewed by the totality of the circumstances. The program will address evidence such as texts, emails, social media, financial records, medical and therapy records, witness testimony, expert testimony, and litigation history.

Ms. Reiter will also discuss possible defense strategies where coercive control has been alleged, including how to challenge claims for vagueness, present alternative explanations, test expert methodology, and differentiate mutual heightened-conflict conduct from a pattern of abuse.

Listen as our expert reveals how family law attorneys can identify, present, and challenge claims involving gaslighting, coercive control, and litigation abuse in custody and family court proceedings. 

Presented By

Elisa Reiter
Senior Attorney
Calabrese Budner LLP

Certified by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization in Family Law and Child Welfare Law, Ms. Reiter offers clients the depth and breadth of experience few attorneys can match. Known as a “powerhouse in the courthouse,” she has decades of experience protecting clients’ interests in complex family law litigation. Both scholarly and popular publications regularly call on Ms. Reiter to share her knowledge with readers—her vast list of publications includes articles in Texas Lawyer, New York Law Journal, Daily Business Review, The Imprint, The Recorder, and National Law Journal.

Credit Information
  • This 90-minute webinar is eligible in most states for 1.5 CLE credits.


  • Live Online


    On Demand

Date + Time

  • event

    Thursday, May 28, 2026

  • schedule

    1:00 PM ET/10:00 AM PT

I. Gaslighting and coercive control: core concepts

II. How coercive control shows up in family court

III. Legal abuse, custody pressure, and institutional control

IV. Persuasive evidence, including timelines, records, witnesses, and experts

V. Credibility, confirmation bias, and stereotypes

VI. Presenting a pattern across multiple categories of evidence

VII. Refuting claims and challenging expert testimony

VIII. Practical strategies

Ms. Reiter will review these and other key issues:

  • How gaslighting and coercive control may arise in family law, custody, and domestic abuse proceedings
  • How to distinguish a pattern of coercive control or legal abuse
  • What evidence is most useful to prove or refute
  • How expert testimony can help courts understand coercive control and victim behavior
  • How to challenge coercive control claims